David Congalton

Who will care for your animals after your death? If you are fortunate, family or friends will do so. The specifics should be part of your estate planning; you should not take anything for granted. People may not be able or willing to take on the responsibility for your pets.
After the death of an owner, beloved pets may be dumped at a shelter or tossed out of the house or even euthanized. Old cats that have only known one home and one owner, wind up sitting in a cage, bewildered and depressed. When someone comes to the shelter looking for a pet, they are going to adopt the young, outgoing cat, not the depressed animal sitting in the back of her cage. If it is not a no-kill shelter, the feline survivor will soon be euthanized.
To avoid this, you need to plan. If you are lucky, you’ll just need to discuss this with your family and friends. You probably should include a provision in your will. If you don’t have people that you can depend on to take care of your animals, you may need to set up a trust or make other complicated arrangements. Many states have specific statues for establishing a Pet Trust. Besides your companion animals, don’t forget any other animals that depend on you: livestock and any other farm or domestic animals. If you have stray cats that you feed, try to find someone to help you who will continue when you are gone. The same goes for birds who need your feeders to get through the winter.
You cannot just leave money or anything else to your pets. Animals are not ‘persons’ legally. Only humans or corporations can inherit directly. And no matter how much money they have, they’ll need people to spend it for them.
If you leave money to a dog, you will be considered crazy (or eccentric, if you were rich enough). Anyone who challenges your wishes in court will succeed. On the other hand, if you leave a reasonable amount of money to a person or to a trust to care for your animals, you will be considered a responsible individual and your wishes will be upheld.
This book is over a decade old now, so it cannot be depended on for specific legal information. Since you will need to use an attorney to make specific arrangements, this really isn’t a drawback. This book’s utility is in shining light on an often overlooked facet of estate planning. Nobody likes to plan for their death, and it is easy to overlook your pets.… (mais)

After reading David’s book about losing his 5 pets in one tragic night, I looked down into the faces of our 3 rescue dogs, with tears in my eyes, and catch a glimpse of curiosity in their sweet brown eyes. At that moment I am so grateful for their company and unconditional love. I can’t imagine losing all my pets at once, like David and his wife Charlotte did, but I know the feeling of loss, because before we found these 3 dogs, we had lost everyone of our pets, one after another; our dogs, our cat and our little bird went over the rainbow bridge in a span of a few years. I could so relate to the quiet emptiness of coming home to a house once filled with life and then nothing: no one greeting you at the door, no one under foot, no one begging for treats…if you’ve been there then you know the hole a pet leaves when they pass away.

This is a wonderful heart touching story for anyone experiencing grief—old or new—because in telling their story about the journey through loss, David invites us to walk with him and share the experience that is part of the human condition; grief touches us all. This memoir reminds us that a broken heart can stay shattered, or it can grow and stretch over the wounded places making it able to hold more love. 5 stars.… (mais)