Rachel Aviv

Rachel Aviv uses four case studies to explore the interaction between psychiatry and the actual lives of the people who fall under its care for varying reasons. A woman in India becomes increasingly involved in living spiritually, and Aviv uses this case to explore how religious behavior and western psychiatry can conflict. A man spends months in an institute undergoing psychotherapy, losing his family and career along the way, only to have pharmaceuticals quickly lift him from his depression. Aviv here looks at the tension between therapy and modern pharmaceuticals as well as society's belief that certain mental illnesses are personal failings rather than errors in brain chemistry. A young Black woman's mental health issues go unaddressed until she ends up incarcerated, highlighting how society is set up to provide support to some, and punishment to others. And a woman, having been prescribed an ever changing and increasing cocktail of drugs to manage her depression is faced with the difficult task of trying to wean herself off the drugs.

The book is also prefaced and ended with an account of her own early childhood stay in a mental health ward and how the two girls she looked up to while she was there had lives that turned out very differently than her own.

There's so much here, and it's all so fascinating. Aviv isn't advocating for specific approaches (although she is clear on the need for more funding and improvements to mental healthcare), but exploring the places where the contradictions lay. It makes sense that an organ as complex as the human brain would sit uncomfortably with simple answers or that what works for one person would also work for another. Aviv is also so deeply caring of her four subjects and her reporting here includes family members and those who have interacted with them, showing how mental illness doesn't only affect the person disabled by the illness. Aviv knows how to tell a story and her attention to detail is effective here. This is a far cry from the usual "look at this wacky mental illness and how it makes this guy act weird" approach and I'll be thinking about the issues she raises and the very real people she writes about for some time.… (mais)

An interesting book about psychology that even readers who aren't mental health professionals might find enjoyable. The author doesn't exactly propound a theory as much as present a set of case studies to demonstrate how modern psychology's worldview might not encompass the whole of human psychological experience. "Strangers to Ourselves" doesn't dismiss psychology as much as it calls for a wider vision of how human beings understand and cope with their psychological problems. There is, the author seems to be arguing, a world of experience outside the professional psychological mindset. "Strangers to Ourselves" occasionally makes this observation seem like a truly thrilling idea. Aviv's stories and her willingness to look beyond the professions's limits sometimes reminded me of early psychologists' belief that human experience was deeper and stranger than most of their contemporaries suspected.

It helps that the author seems to have chosen her case studies well. Freud occasionally gets criticized for basing many of his theories on his experiences with wealthy, fin-de-siecle Viennese patients, but Aviv takes things in a very different direction here. She includes a woman with a privileged upbringing who grew up in Greenwich, Connecticut, but also a working class black woman whose mental issues and disastrous choices lead to her incarceration and an Indian woman who uses her Hindu faith to better deal with her mental health issues. The author also describes her own experiences in the mental health system -- she was once the youngest anorexic on record -- and traces the experiences of another patient she met while institutionalized. While I found "Strangers to Ourselves" generally interesting, the author's decision to tell these stories struck me as genuinely brave. It's hard not to feel that something's wrong when, as she puts it, a psychological diagnosis can lead to a "career" in mental illness.

The author also provides a historically interesting recounting of how traditional, long-term psychotherapy fell out of favor, describing a court case that marked the beginning of the end of the school of thought that believed that you'd need a comfortable couch and a decade in therapy to resolve your inner conflicts. This case is justly famous in mental health circles, but I'd never heard of it. While many of these stories are genuinely inspiring -- since they show how people with difficult psychological issues adopted unconventional methods in order to live with their genuinely difficult psychological issues -- this chapter serves as a warning. Even the best care won't solve your problems for you. Recommended to professionals and hobbyists alike.… (mais)

Jan 8, 2023. Strangers to Ourselves: Unsettled Minds and the Stories That Make Us
by Rachel Avi

Why I picked this book up: a Christmas present from my son Hanse.

Thoughts: this book drew me in from the beginning. The author was able to share an in-depth view of a young girl’s battle with anorexia, her deep battle, identity and exposure of psychiatry.

Why I finished this read: I felt as though I was reading a diary and watching professional attempts at work. I wanted to see how it ended.

Stars rating: 4 of 5 stars.… (mais)

Rachel Aviv's Strangers to Ourselves: Unsettled Minds and the Stories That Make Us (2022) is a thought-provoking and profound study of how lives are defined by stories, perceptions, and choices. The author examines the lives of six families defined by mental illness. The stories that unfold are complex and multi-generational. However, the bigger picture here describes a history of psychiatry in the late 20th century as psychoanalytic concepts of personality gave way to pharmacological explanations for understanding and treating mental illness.

Readers learn about an influential malpractice lawsuit that changed psychiatry and the spread of Western psychiatry to India, how loneliness and despair lead mothers to seek protection for their children, and how relationships with food and society provide comfort. This is also a book about acceptance and finding one's way. While I learned and thought about defining mental illness, sometimes finding myself back in the early stages of my career, I reflected on the importance of seeing people as they see themselves.

Early career mental health professionals are well-trained to recognize mental illness and provide treatments that promise relief to their clients. They are trained that the working relationship between therapist and client is of utmost importance. With some practice, they often learn how to sit with a client and experience both the subjective and the objective experiences of both client and therapist--the place is where a Buddhist-influenced psychology points. But it is not easy. Quiet observation of ourselves takes time.

Aviv takes us on her journey as she observes herself and her context. She challenges the question, "is mental illness a personality flaw or a brain imbalance?". This book is a good read for counseling students and practitioners or anyone interested in examining the assumptions underlying how they approach people with mental illness.… (mais)