A good marital therapy book about conflict management inside the marriage, it has been sourced by a good many counselors since. It is a bit long-winded but quite readable. I recommend this book for anyone contemplating a long relationship, and I think both parties to the same should consult it. ( )

The author of "Games People Play" here presents a self-improvement manual on Fighting loved ones. He explains why we must train to fight - a critical path toward intimacy.