Henry Cloud
Autor(a) de Boundaries: When to Say Yes, When to Say No, To Take Control of Your Life
About the Author
Cofounder of Cloud/Townsend Communications, Henry Cloud is a popular speaker and licensed psychologist. Cloud graduated with a doctorate in clinical psychology from Rosemead Graduate School of Psychology and maintains a private practice in Newport Beach, California. Also a cohost of the nationally mostrar mais broadcast "Minirth Meier New Life Clinic," Cloud has written numerous books with his business partner John Townsend, including Safe People, Twelve Christian Beliefs That Can Drive You Crazy, The Mom Factor, and the Gold Medallion award-winning Boundaries. On his own, Cloud, who specializes in individual adult psychotherapy, has written the books Changes That Heal: How to Understand Your Past to Ensure a Healthier Future and Secrets of Your Family Tree. (Bowker Author Biography) mostrar menos
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Séries
Obras de Henry Cloud
Boundaries Updated and Expanded Edition: When to Say Yes, How to Say No To Take Control of Your Life (2017) 840 cópias
Safe People: How to Find Relationships That Are Good for You and Avoid Those That Aren't (1995) 685 cópias
Boundaries Face to Face: How to Have That Difficult Conversation You've Been Avoiding (2003) 419 cópias
9 Things You Simply Must Do to Succeed in Love and Life: A Psychologist Probes the Mystery of Why Some Lives Really… (2004) 386 cópias
Boundaries Participant's Guide---Revised: When To Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life (1999) 205 cópias
The Power of the Other: The startling effect other people have on you, from the boardroom to the bedroom and beyond-and… (2016) 185 cópias
The One-Life Solution: Reclaim Your Personal Life While Achieving Greater Professional Success (2008) 162 cópias
It's Not My Fault: The No-Excuses Plan for Overcoming the Effects of People, Circumstances or DNA and Enjoying God's… (2007) 156 cópias
Rescue Your Love Life: Changing Those Dumb Attitudes & Behaviors That Will Sink Your Marriage (2005) 129 cópias
The Law of Happiness: How Spiritual Wisdom and Modern Science Can Change Your Life (The Secret Things of God) (2011) 81 cópias
Secrets of Your Family Tree: Healing the Present in Light of the Past (Healing for the Heart) (1991) 79 cópias
How to Have That Difficult Conversation: Gaining the Skills for Honest and Meaningful Communication (2007) 69 cópias
Trust: Knowing When to Give It, When to Withhold It, How to Earn It, and How to Fix It When It Gets Broken (2023) 61 cópias
Our Mothers, Ourselves: How Understanding Your Mother's Influence Can Set You on a Path to a Better Life (2015) 27 cópias
Boundaries in Marriage: An 8-Session Focus on Understanding the Boundaries That Make or Break a Marriage [DVD] (2007) 21 cópias
God Will Make a Way Personal Discovery Guide: What to Do When You Don't Know What to Do (2004) 17 cópias
Boundaries, Updated and Expanded Edition: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life (2018) 11 cópias
Divorce & Love Lost: God Will Make a Way (What to Do When You Don't Know What to Do) (2005) 9 cópias
Trust Study Guide: Knowing When to Give It, When to Withhold It, How to Earn It, and How to Fix It When It Gets Broken (2023) 8 cópias
9 Things You Simply Must Do with Bonus Seminar DVD: A Psychologist Learns from His Patients What Really Works and What… (1748) 8 cópias
Boundaries with Kids, Kit 3 cópias
Mamo to moje zycie (Polish Edition) 2 cópias
過猶不及--如何建立你的心理界線 1 exemplar(es)
Raising Great Kids (Ages 0-5): Participant's Guide 1 exemplar(es)
為婚姻立界線--下個男人/女人會更好嗎? 1 exemplar(es)
CCN Broadcasts Expanded Edition November/December 2007: Ultimate Leadership: The Fears that Limit Leaders 1 exemplar(es)
No es mi culpa: ¿A quién culparé? ¿A la gente, las circunstancias o el ADN? Un plan sin… (2008) 1 exemplar(es)
El poder del otro: El asombroso efecto que otras personas tienen sobre ti, desde la sala de juntas hasta el dormitorio… (2017) 1 exemplar(es)
Integrity: Cultivating Character 1 exemplar(es)
Надежные люди 1 exemplar(es)
Boundaries Updated and Expanded Edition and New Codependency 2 Books Collection Set (2019) 1 exemplar(es)
One-Life Solution Lib/E: Reclaim Your Personal Life While Achieving Greater Professional Success (2021) 1 exemplar(es)
Boundaries in Marriage - International Edition: An 8-Session Focus on Boundaries and Marriage (2002) 1 exemplar(es)
Addiction 1 exemplar(es)
Ribos: kada sakyti "taip", kaip sakyti "ne", kad patys tvarkytumėte savo gyvenimą (2013) 1 exemplar(es)
為工作立界線 1 exemplar(es)
職場軟實力 1 exemplar(es)
[No title] 1 exemplar(es)
Building a Culture for Authentic Spiritual Growth 1 exemplar(es)
為婚姻立界線 (簡體) = Boundaries in marriage 1 exemplar(es)
Ultimate leadership: Character and leadership 1 exemplar(es)
Character Development Workbook 1 exemplar(es)
Changes That Heal & Changes That Heal Workbook 1 exemplar(es)
為婚姻立界線 : 如何建立你的心理界線 (簡體) = Boundaries in marriage 1 exemplar(es)
Játszmák nélkül hogyan kezdjünk hozzá a nehéz… 1 exemplar(es)
Auf der Spur des Glücks 1 exemplar(es)
O SEGREDO DE DEUS 1 exemplar(es)
收尾學 : 開啟未來的決策力 = Necessary endings 1 exemplar(es)
为孩子立界线 Boundries with Kids 1 exemplar(es)
Simplifying the Challenge: White Board Red Couch 1 exemplar(es)
Sophie and Sam When to Say Yes and When to Say No 1 exemplar(es)
What to Do When You Dont Know What to Do 1 exemplar(es)
过犹不及--如何建立你的心里界限(Boundraries) 1 exemplar(es)
带出健康的小组 1 exemplar(es)
Workbook Boundaries 1 exemplar(es)
为婚姻立界线 1 exemplar(es)
Creating an environment for spiritual growth 1 exemplar(es)
Ultimate leadership: Becoming fruitful in leadership 1 exemplar(es)
Boundaries Video Series 1 exemplar(es)
Boundary worksheets 1 exemplar(es)
How to build trust as a leader 1 exemplar(es)
Evolution of the small group leader 1 exemplar(es)
Groups that grow: A place to belong 1 exemplar(es)
Ultimate leadership: How good leaders handle negative 1 exemplar(es)
Groups that grow: Processing transitions 1 exemplar(es)
Groups that grow: Dealing with difficult people 1 exemplar(es)
Groups that grow: Responding to people in pain 1 exemplar(es)
Ultimate leadership: Truth-telling in leadership 1 exemplar(es)
Boundaries with Kids Guide 1 exemplar(es)
Ultimate leadership: Overcoming obstacles and winning 1 exemplar(es)
Groups that grow: What do we all do now? Part 4 1 exemplar(es)
Groups that grow: Coaching life-changing leaders 1 exemplar(es)
Groups that grow: Building the guardrails 1 exemplar(es)
Engaging in healthy conflict in groups 1 exemplar(es)
Groups that grow: A time to laugh 1 exemplar(es)
Ultimate leadership: The worst sickness a leader can have 1 exemplar(es)
Taking ownership of the outcome 1 exemplar(es)
Learning to listen beyond words 1 exemplar(es)
Groups that grow: Sharing the leadership load 1 exemplar(es)
Groups that grow: Going deeper 1 exemplar(es)
Ultimate leadership: A growth plan for leaders 1 exemplar(es)
Safe People Video Series 1 exemplar(es)
Boundaries Participant’s Guide for video Series Revised 1 exemplar(es)
Réussir sa vie 1 exemplar(es)
Kweek Karaktervolle Kinders 1 exemplar(es)
Hoe mensen groeien naar volwassenheid 1 exemplar(es)
Turning questions into transformational discussions 1 exemplar(es)
Změna přináší uzdravení : jak pochopit svou minulost a tím si zajistit zdravou… (2000) 1 exemplar(es)
Die een oplossing vir die lewe : Waardevolle strategieë om 'n balans te handhaaf tussen jou en jou werk, gesin &… (2012) 1 exemplar(es)
Necessary Endings 1 exemplar(es)
The Secret und die Geheimnisse Gottes: Ihre Wünsche - und wie sie in Erfüllung gehen können (2009) 1 exemplar(es)
Chave do Crescimento, A 1 exemplar(es)
Simplifying the Challenge - 4 Video segments on Leadership 1 exemplar(es)
What Intimacy Requires Part 2 - Defining Moments CD 1 exemplar(es)
What Intimacy Requires Part 1 - Defining Moments CD 1 exemplar(es)
Solutions: Imperfection Knocks at the Door 1 exemplar(es)
Solutions: Once Burned - Twice Shy 1 exemplar(es)
Solutions: I Deserve Better Than That 1 exemplar(es)
Solutions: Who's the Boss? 1 exemplar(es)
Свидания: нужны ли границы? 1 exemplar(es)
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Etiquetado
Conhecimento Comum
- Nome de batismo
- Cloud, Henry
- Outros nomes
- 亨利·克勞德
- Data de nascimento
- 1956-03-17
- Sexo
- male
- Nacionalidade
- USA
- Local de nascimento
- Vicksburg, Mississippi, USA
- Educação
- Southern Methodist University (BA)
Biola University (PhD)
Talbot Theological Seminary - Relacionamentos
- Cloud, Tori (wife)
Cloud, Olivia (daughter)
Cloud, Lucy (daughter)
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Estatísticas
- Obras
- 210
- Also by
- 1
- Membros
- 18,977
- Popularidade
- #1,152
- Avaliação
- 4.0
- Resenhas
- 130
- ISBNs
- 489
- Idiomas
- 18
- Favorito
- 6
Cloud’s main idea is that relationships of respect and growth yield the most productive results. Key insights have only happened because other people have become involved in another person’s life. Other people can inspire us to do things that we simply can’t achieve in isolation. This trait is grounded in the neuroscience of how mirror neurons act in our brains.
Although this book is written primarily for the workplace, this central idea has contains a very religious, spiritual core. Not only does this work reference Cloud’s Christianity multiple times, but also it contains common insights of religion, that no one is an island and that humans do better in loving, respectful relationships. This motif goes against the grain that selfish jerks end up first. Indeed, Cloud speaks directly against such a premise in his conclusion and contends that these jerks could have had greater impact with better relationships.
This book still faces a few limits. He consistently uses the term “corner four relationships” to describe the healthiest, most generative relationships. This concept clearly refers to a chart in the book, but I was not able to view this graphic because I listened to an audiobook. This repeated abstraction is, well, a little too abstract for me. I wish he would have just coined a more descriptive phrase for it that wouldn’t be so vague and distracting.
Further, Cloud never discusses the area of difficult choices. He presumes that relationships should always come first. How do we tell if someone is, say, taking advantage of us? How do we psychologically balance our need for subjective trust with an objective evaluation? These and other confusing areas are simply not addressed in this text. That’s unfortunate because the values of any principles are most clearly seen in the required trade offs.
This book’s audience focuses on organizational leaders and those aspiring to grow. The message can encompass a wide variety of organizations and leaders. The book broadly addresses businesses, non-profits, educators, and family leaders. In particular, mentors can benefit from Cloud’s focus on cultivating synergistic relationships, and their mentees can benefit from figuring out how to make their other relationships yield more fruit. Throughout, he consistently reminds us that individual success always rests on the shoulders of other people, and the greatest leaders bring out the best in other individuals, not just their own greatness.… (mais)